Donno why it is happening to us !!! Can we go ahead with each other ???? maximum answers will really help us..?

Aren't there any other girls in your world?? You sound depraved of affection from other women. Listen ! I may want to sleep with a married man, I may want his affection and his love and he might want mine ( I AM GOING THROUGH THAT at the moment - seriously!!) but some things are just NOT DONE! Taboo!! not allowed ok? not right in the eyes of the law and not fair on other people: His wife and child.. sooooo that's that. YOU NEED to extract yourself out of the situation completely - do not see her , do not talk to her or at least see her and talk to her as little as possible so that you can P this time and get over wanting her.. it isnt easy but this is what you MUST do! There are plenty of other gorgeous cute girls out there so get involved with them and emerse yourself fully in life. There are other people and things to do believe me I understand it is very hard to not think about someone that you desire and care for but it would be best for the both of you to concentrate on other people and other things especially if all you are after is with her. If it is not love just lust than it can seriously ruin both your families relationship and your relationship with her after the deed.